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Friday, November 25, 2011

Expecting the unexpected

Life is an adventure.You won't know what's going to happen the next minute.Sometimes you dream of very good things and it so happens that those very things take place in a few days itself. It gives us immense pleasure,and we say " I just thought of it and wow am so happy that things happen in the same way i wish for". But sometimes life gives us a twist. We exclaim "I never thought these would happen!! I never thought he would react to me like this! i never thought she would turn her back to me!"It happens!! Nothing is in our hands. Situations change, people change. Life is not guaranteed. Things do not always occur in the way we expect them to.There are things that gives us a sudden shock, we exclaim, we grieve,we lament, we are shuddered. In all points of life, its our way of perception to take things easily. Taking things to the mind or to the heart is in our hands.In all phases of our life, we must be prepared for the worst.Being positive and hoping things to happen as we wish for is different but believing them to happen always is foolishness.Its better to view life as a crazy game. Take it sportively.Play it with an aim,hope for your victory but never expect things to happen in your own way. Understand expectations hurt!! Your expectations should not turn against you. Try reducing your expectations. Stop expecting things from people around you,however close they may be. Expecting the unexpected will make your life happy :)